When You're The One Who Cheats: Ten Things You Need To Know

When You’re the One Who Cheats: Ten Things You Need to Know is a book for anyone having an affair or indiscretion of any kind and who is confused, unsure and looking for answers. When you’re the one who cheats, it can feel like you have no options. This book can help. It helps the cheating partner decide if they should end their affair or their marriage, and it helps anyone who has ever had an affair and is in recovery from the affair. No matter how you use this book, if you read it and do some of the simple exercises provided, you’ll find answers. And you will realize that, yes, you do have options. Throughout, it provides nonjudgmental explanations, advice and a non-pathological view of infidelity, in all its permutations, to help you—the cheating partner—evaluate your situation and make some choices. There’s advice on helping you decide if you should tell your spouse, and how to figure out if you should stay in your marriage. The aim is to help you, the cheating partner, find clarity and make changes to create a joyful life that works.